If you have a higher or secondary professional medical education, and for some reason you no longer want to work in the healthcare sector, then this article is for you. Below we will consider options for the development of the professional activities of medical workers who have decided to leave medicine for another profession.

The value of the professional experience of a medical specialist is very high for other sectors of the economy. It's no secret that not everyone can get a medical education. This requires colossal endurance, willpower, and intellectual abilities. That is why the holders of a diploma of medical education are one step higher in their moral-volitional and intellectual qualities.

Reasons why healthcare workers leave medicine

Why doctors and average medical staff quit medicine? There are a lot of them: objective and subjective.

We list the most common:

Professional burnout is an objective factor. Under high load conditions, burnout occurs faster. Against the backdrop of ongoing reforms in the healthcare sector, feelings of dissatisfaction professional activity noted more often. Today it is CMO, replacing certification with accreditation. Another factor that exacerbates burnout is negative media coverage, which very often misrepresents a particular case. Such publications in the media generate a negative public momentum towards the entire medical community.

Professional indications. Firstly, this is due to harmful and dangerous working conditions: infections, negative physical factors. For example, radiologists and X-ray laboratory assistants have their own limitations. Medical workers have the opportunity to retire earlier. But if the forces allow you to work, then the question arises of choosing a new profession.

Financial and economic necessity. Due to low salaries, the specialist is forced to look for additional sources of income. The first option: to earn extra money by profession in others medical organizations. The second option: internal combination, additional load at the place of work. The third option: look for earnings in other areas. Many, after trying themselves in other professions, end up going there.

Other professions for medical professionals

Scientific and research activities

Middle and higher medical personnel may participate in scientific and laboratory research. This type of work is not always, but often, paid sufficiently and allows you to save the profession.

Medical knowledge and experience will allow you to quickly master the field of scientific research in pharmaceutical production, the activities of laboratories and research institutes. The same applies to participation in activities in biological and chemical specialties. For example, in the food industry.

To work in this area, in principle, no special additional education is required. If this job involves teaching, then you will need to undergo retraining.

Pharmaceutical Representative

Working as a medical representative involves career growth and fairly high earnings. At the same time, there is an irregular working day, constant traveling and communication with a large number of people every day.

Many medical professionals choose this field and build an effective career. To work in this area, it is enough to take special courses or trainings "Effective Communication", "Sales Technologies".

Aesthetic cosmetology, SPA

The beauty and leisure industry always keeps open doors for professionals with medical education. You can work in beauty salons and beauty parlors. Earnings can be generated independently in order to receive a decent income, it is supposed to independently promote services and develop a client base. Skills and medical knowledge in this area will be directly applied. At the same time, a beauty salon or spa, in which a specialist with a medical education works, will be more competitive.

In order to fully adapt in this professional field, you need to go through small practical special courses. Usually they are tailored for each organization. For example, "Client Consulting Technologies".

This position is suitable for highly qualified doctors. Depending on the volume of work and form of ownership, wage can be impressive. There may be several options for working in such centers. You can consult clients as a sports doctor or sports nutritionist (nutritionist). To do this, of course, you need to undergo professional retraining in programs such as "", "", "Nutritiology". The first two programs involve a medical specialization, and "" - a non-medical specialization. A holder of a medical diploma can successfully work as a weight loss and weight correction consultant. Another option is to get further education. It is also enough to undergo retraining.

Investigation and establishment of insured events. Pay is often piecework and base wages are low. If there is talent in this area, then you can earn good money and count on career growth.

Teacher and tutor

It is possible to work in private and public companies and / or register an individual entrepreneurship. If a specialist decides to work for himself, then with the introduction of the law "On Self-Employment", adaptation in this area is simplified. Income and career growth depend on pedagogical and professional training and field of activity.

The first option is to undergo retraining up to 1000 ac. hours for teaching. The program with a volume of 1000 hours allows you to get a diploma of retraining with the qualification of "teacher", "teacher". A retraining diploma is enough to work in educational institutions all forms of ownership.

• "teacher of biology and chemistry",
• "teacher physical culture»,
• "life safety teacher"
• "teacher-psychologist",
• "teacher-defectologist",
• "speech therapist",
• "Social worker".

If you are interested in pursuing a medical career, consider working abroad. To do this, you need to know the language of the country and have excellent training.

In principle, the choice of a new profession is not limited. According to the law "On Education" one can undergo retraining in almost any profession. The choice of a new profession depends on the desire, some abilities, etc. A complete list of specialties and areas is presented.

It is worth noting that you can always take full-time and distance professional retraining courses on the basis of the Modern Science and Technology Academy (SNTA) and start a career in a new profession.

"This day came! I left medicine. I sit and think, why did everything happen this way? Years of study, practice, sleepless nights, was it really all in vain?

I worked as an ambulance assistant for 5 years. With each passing year, my enthusiasm for work became less and less due to working conditions and pay.

What is an ambulance job?

This is constant contact with dangerous infections. This is constant hypothermia and sleepless nights. And also in 70% of cases these are street calls to the homeless, drunks and brothels. Constant smell of blood, urine, vomit, etc.

Somehow at the beginning of my work on the ambulance, I met my classmate. We got to talking, she said that she works in a beautiful office in the city center, as an assistant to the head. studies English language the costs of which are covered by the company. The salary is good, enough for a new wardrobe and for holidays abroad. She then asked how I was doing and where I worked. I proudly answered that I work in an ambulance and save people's lives (at that time I believed in this). She asked with a little disdain: “Are you picking up homeless people and drunks from the street? Doesn't that disgust you?"

Honestly, even then I was offended by her. Well, in the end, not only homeless people, about 20% are calls to apartments, but about 5% of accidents. I will clarify that this is purely my statistics, based on my work experience, perhaps other ambulance employees have this statistics a little different.

What happened next?

As time went on, I began to notice that nothing was changing in medicine. Salaries are not increasing, and working conditions are only getting worse. In addition, sleepless nights and constant hypothermia began to leave a negative imprint on my body.

Last year I went to work, like hard labor. I went to the call alone, as there was a shortage of personnel. Constant stress, because you never know what awaits you on the next call and whether you will return from this call at all. At each substation there were cases of attacks on doctors. Has anyone been compensated for this? Of course not!

Are we just expendable?

I have the impression that the doctors and paramedics who work in the ambulance are considered expendable by the higher management. Like, you knew where you were going, no one is forcing you to work.

I increasingly began to think about what if the next victim of the attack was me. How can I, a fragile and young girl, stand up for myself? And then what? My parents, at best, will say words of condolence. Even if nothing happens, then my further destiny is to live in poverty, acquire a bunch of diseases (colleagues will understand me) and grow old before my peers.

If I had not met my good friend a few months ago and had not heard what he told me, I probably would have continued to work on the ambulance. I would still go to work, which brings no pleasure, but only disappointment.

“I want to note that I like helping people, I want every patient to be healthy. But, unfortunately, our state is doing everything to discourage doctors from the last desire to work and help people.”

So my friend just told me a few phrases: “ Do you really not love and appreciate yourself so much that you are plunging your life into this swamp with your own hands? You can change everything and live differently. Get out of here before it's too late! A couple more years will pass and you won't be able to leave. The ambulance sucks you in, taking all your life force. Over time, the desire to change something disappears, because there is a fear of something new and self-doubt. In any case, the ambulance is not the place where a woman should work, and even more so a sweet and pretty girl like you.

To be honest, his words made me radically change my life. I quit the ambulance the next morning, right after my shift ended. By the way, in the personnel department, I listened to a whole mountain of tricky instructions addressed to me like: “You will still run and beg to be taken back. Do you think you can find something better? Well, well, look at your failure. run“Run away, you won’t find anything better anyway!”

You know their mockery has become a powerful stimulus for me. After 3 days I got a job in a pharmacy. The trial period was only 2 weeks.

Now what?

And now I work, warm, clean, sleep at home in a comfortable bed, and besides, I get 2 times more salary. Entered the correspondence department for a pharmacist. Life is getting better. I go to work as if I were going to a holiday, because I know that finally I am in a place where my work is paid at its true worth and my work brings me pleasure.

I wish all my former colleagues to have the courage to rethink their lives and decide to change them.

"I understand that ambulance this is not a job for a fragile young girl. And in general, women should not work in such conditions.

In general, it's time for me to choose a university. Well, I thought about it and decided to become a doctor, a surgeon. Mom swears, what kind of surgeon? You, they say, first chop cucumbers for salad and do not cut yourself, then shred people. Dad, on the contrary, praises and smiles like that. Waiting to see how he will carry medical alcohol.
Well, I went to the doctor. A classmate takes the Hippocratic Oath every weekend and Friday. He doesn't accept anything. I am learning alone! As time went on, I was entrusted with sewing up one belly. The doctor looked at my work and stated:
- Sychev, with such skills you don't get wounds, but sew up your socks! Me too, needlewoman.
The first pancake is lumpy, who doesn’t happen to? I, therefore, do not waste time and keep asking for an operation. Trusted, cheers! Operated. How to say. Sick, I will rejoice, he remained alive. That's just my nickname appeared - Befstroganoff.
- Sychev, are you treating a person or preparing a kebab? Surgery is not for you.
- OK. Let's go where the responsibility for the patient's life is minimal.
So I became a pathologist. It was dumb, of course, at first, but then I got used to it. Even better. A dead man will not ask for a certificate, he will not trample in his office, he will not complain to the head physician. But only here it failed. My very first autopsy showed that the patient was paralyzed. Well, I didn’t keep track, with whom it doesn’t happen?
- The first pancake is lumpy, and the first dead man is alive, right, Sychev?
- Well, Faizulai Faizulaevich...
- From you the pathologist useless! Your girlfriend is also indistinguishable from the dead when you come to her? You will go to Khryashchev as a student, there is only one way for you!
Khryashchev Sergey Viktorovich They say that after death, he will open himself and ascertain the poisoning. In short, he is such a pathologist that other pathologists next to him are pediators. Or grandmas in the registry. The coolest corpse cutter, but also the most severe.
I come to him on the first day, and he does this with his eyes: morgue-morgue. Like, to immediately understand who you are dealing with. He also sews up clothes only with surgical thread, instead of a toothpick he picks his teeth with a scalpel, drinks exclusively medical alcohol. In a word, a physician to the marrow of bones. Yes, he is a good teacher. But hello, kinda. The first time we go with him to the morgue, and he barked like this:
- Soldiers get up! Why are we lying, get up quickly! I later found out that he was a former military man, and the habit remained. And then it seemed strange. He also likes to talk with his "patients".
- Oh, Marya Petrovna, she died half an hour ago. As they say, piping hot. So what's in the stomach? Yeah, soup, still warm. Not like mine. Warbler, take the borsch to the microwave.
Or:
- Artur Borisovich, what is our cause of death? I'll open the skull box, let's brainstorm together! However, my skills grew, he taught steadily and liked to say:
- You will learn, Slavka, you will go to work as a surgeon, you will recruit a client base for me in the morgue! In short, a funny guy.
Once, a black man is brought in to us.
- Sergey Viktorovich, he is black, like your humor!
- Shh, Slavka. Do you hear this silence? Not because they are dead, but because you joke just like you operate! Don’t be offended, let’s go cut the tanned one ...
And here Negro how to jump out! I almost turned gray. And Khryashchev, at least that.
- Sychev, have you heard of a post-mortem eructation? It stinks horribly. Nice, what do we have here.
Okay, to hell with the burp. Cautiously I approach the African American, and my hands are trembling! Not for me, for the deceased. The second time I almost turned gray.
- Calm, Sychev. Postmortem convulsions.
And then the black man slowly opens his eyes. He looks at me, then at Khryashchev. And we are with a black man in chorus:

Aaaaaaaaaaaa!
- Sergey Viktorovich, what is it?!
Khryashchev stands puzzled:
- Oh my God. I remember they brought the living, but they turned out to be dead. But on the contrary... Hush, Snickers, don't yell.
- Do you speak Russian?
- Okho, Slavka, but he understands us.
- I... I have nothing to remember... Russel...
- Is your name Russell? I'm Sergey Viktorovich, and this is Slavka. Hello, my black friend!
The poor negro mutters something, clutching his head with his hands.
- Oh, don't remember shit! Oh, there is ... One phrase I have to remember, the main thing!
- Well, what do you have?
- Morning... Morning is aground...
- Yeah, in the morning aground.
- Morning on the rocks... Whip, winp!
- Well, drink. A bird like a heron.
- Morning is stranded, bittern rassel!
- So. Bittern in the morning, Russell? HM. Slavka, come here. While the Negro is recovering, Khryashchev takes me aside.
- Sergey Viktorovich, and what is it?
- In the morning, run aground bittern, Russell? It seems like nonsense, but on the other hand ... In our army, they didn’t encrypt it that way! This is a code phrase, apparently, but someone wanted to eliminate the Negro. We need to figure this out. Where did you find black?
- They picked it up near the trash can, it was, ahem. In Russian folk costume.
- Yeah, props. Well, it's an agent. Also with amnesia.
So Khryashchev decided to go to that place and look, maybe something interesting. For lack of another, the Negro was dressed in the uniform of a doctor - a pure intern. We leave the hospital, everyone looks around.
- Sergey Viktorovich, is this for an exchange with you?
- Neeeee, you pizdyyyysh!
- Shut up, Russell! Don't attract attention!
We got into the Khryashchev Volga and drove off. Not far from the place, here are the trash cans. Homeless people sit, nothing like interesting.
- Oh, coal, healthy! Well, you lit yesterday!
- Neeee, you pizdyyysh!
- Russell, stay away from the homeless. Sychev, look for evidence.
And then I see - serious gentlemen are coming. In suits. Worried, they rummage around with their eyes. Suddenly they saw our negro and hurried.
- Sergey Viktorovich, is it not our honor to go? They wave their hands, shout something.
- Warbler, Russell, get in the car!
Like in an action movie. They jumped, Khryashchev rested the pedal and forward. I looked around - they were all waving, then they also got into the car. And the car is serious, I need to operate on such half a city. They are catching up. Russell sits, mooing, holding his head. And here is this:
- Recall! Recall! In the morning aground...
They overtake and press us. They're honking. Khryashchev turned pale.
- All right, Slavka. Finished.
- In the morning aground ...
These in suits opened the door of the Volga:
- Idiots, you fucking took our black man?!
- Remember! There will be a hangover in the morning, drink the pickle!
In short, everyone has been told. The Ambassador of Zimbabwe, the first day in the city, decided to take him to a tavern. Out of habit, he got drunk on vodka and ran off to roam the city. Then he caught up with the homeless hawthorn and passed out. There he was taken for dead. Of course, they thanked us for saving the ambassador and gave us a cash gift. Khryashchev took a vacation on this occasion, and I decided to leave medicine. Well, his, not mine. He got a job as a chef in a restaurant. And you know what? No one cooks beef stroganoff better than me! By the way, my nickname here is Surgeon. Stuffed chicken is sewn up only with surgical thread. And I cut the meat with a scalpel. Out of old habit.

Why I left medicine
Doctor's confession. Part 1. Why I left medicine

I am a doctor, a surgeon. More than 20 years in medicine. In short, in strokes, most of life is a prosperous, one might say, standard course of events. "Average" family: father is a military man, mother is a doctor. School, medal, honey. institute, diploma with honors, 3 years of work on distribution in the "outback" in a small district hospital both in the specialty and in plugging holes in the staffing table. I had to visit both a therapist and a neuropathologist-psychiatrist, a blood transfusion doctor, and to establish ophthalmology, and to be on duty at night for all the specialists. It was not easy, but very interesting. I remember those three years fondly.

Then work at a world-famous research institute and the realization of a dream - surgery, microsurgery. PhD thesis defense. Lots of interesting work, unique operations. Wonderful people nearby - teachers, colleagues, patients. When meeting her new patients, she always said: “There are three of us now - you, me and the disease. Who will you be with? If with me, then there will be two of us at the same time, and it will be easier to cope with the disease.” In general, I loved my job, considered my vocation. Never regretted my choice. I couldn't imagine life without surgery.
A few years ago, I left my beloved and successful surgery, an unfinished doctorate and perplexed colleagues. She left deliberately, calmly, without regret. I am not ashamed of the life I have lived, but I have begun a new one. My beloved mother, my friend and adviser, watching the changes in me, in my life, not yet understanding what was happening, said: "I have the impression that you have been going to this all your life." Yes, now I know for sure that this is the case.
What has changed my life so dramatically?
The fact is that my considerable experience, mindset and simple observation have long made me draw several disappointing conclusions about my profession.
1. Medicine forces you to constantly violate the main commandment of the physician - do no harm ("non nocere")! Where is the exit?
2. The whole history of human diseases and healing has a distressingly constant vector (character): despite all the new achievements of medical science, there are more and more unresolved issues, more and more suffering people, fewer and fewer healthy newborns, long-forgotten "defeated" diseases are returning, there are completely new. I would say, some kind of infinitely bleak vector: the farther, the worse. Why? When and how will it end?
3. All medicine is built on imperfect diagnostic methods. None are 100% reliable. And on such "floating" data, the physician has to draw conclusions, give recommendations, and make responsible decisions. I have the right?
4. Pharmaceutical business with an avalanche of new drugs itself constantly leads to new problems in treatment, causing drug incompatibilities, side effects and complications from these drugs. Is there an alternative?
5. Every physician faces: sometimes with "miracles" of recovery, when a obviously doomed patient "suddenly" recovers, then with "fatal" cases, when a successful course of treatment "suddenly" acquires an uncontrollable catastrophic character. Where is the explanation for all this "suddenly"? How to counter this?
6. The main issue of treatment remains unresolved - the cause of the disease. Microbes, viruses, genes, atherosclerosis...for some reason, they infect some and "do not touch" others. Immunity, stress, ecology, age and heredity - these are the "universal", for all occasions, explanations that are sometimes like a magic wand for a doctor. But then why, for example, during a flu epidemic, a strong one with normal immunity can get sick, while a frail one with a reduced one is healthy. Why, with equal data, one has a heart attack after a heart attack (tumor, diabetes), while the other has nothing. Why does a boy who saves a baby drowning in ice later have neither bronchitis nor pneumonia, but a seasoned kayaker athlete who fell during training in cold water, dies "of hypothermia". Why are all the efforts of modern medicine in the fight against infertility so often futile? Here is a young woman after several miscarriages, in order to give birth, she lay in the hospital throughout her pregnancy. And the next pregnancy was completely safely spent on the run and caring for her first child. And she gave birth to a second child, "without noticing." Why do healthy spouses have a baby with a disability. Or no children at all. And the "lady" with bad habits, with health problems, who has no family, no comfortable housing, no desire to raise numerous offspring - child after child. How many unanswered "why".
7. Narrow specialization is both a necessity and a misfortune of medicine. The understandable desire to deepen knowledge in a certain area has its downside - the loss of the overall "picture" of the disease. And a cool narrow specialist, figuratively speaking, "surgeon thumb left leg" is simply physically unable to see (remember, know) other health problems of his patient. But in the body everything is interconnected.
8. The "zone of interest" of medicine is limited and does not cover all health problems. For example, such centuries-old problems as the evil eye or damage do not fall into the area of ​​influence of medicine (as esotericists and psychics say - energy implantation). Whether medicine wants to admit it or not, completely different "structures" cope with such a misfortune. And honest doctors, not finding the slightest deviation in a young healthy, but "withering" person, admit that only God knows what the reason is and what to expect next. And more and more often they send the patient to the "grandmothers" or the priest.
And what didn’t fit in my head at all was a new “explanation” of the reason for the increased cases unexpected death people (children), death against the background of a prosperous state. "Sudden (child) death syndrome" - this is how the admission of doctors in their helplessness now looks. Simply put, doctors write that a person suddenly died for some unknown reason. This is what they call - we have arrived.
9. Vaccinations are a full-scale disgrace of medicine, put in a number of countries, including ours, at the state level. Active and unjustified interference in the nature of a person, a child, with grave consequences. Who will answer?
10. Every physician more than once in his life is forced to say: "we are powerless." And it doesn't matter if he says this to a hopeless patient, to the parents of a sick child, or to himself, while maintaining the illusion of help in the person so as not to kill hope. A lie to the rescue? And how to look into the eyes of this person or the parents of such a child?
11. As an ophthalmologist, I have long wanted to understand what "good" or "evil" eyes mean. What are the criteria for identifying them? And what is the difference between a "sincere" person, with whom it is so comfortable to communicate, from a "soulless" person, with whom you avoid contacts with all your might? How to react to such statements of patients as: "it became easier in the Soul", "the stone fell from the Soul"? Or "cats scratch their souls", "hard on the soul" ...? And what does "insane" mean? What is Soul? Where is? Why is there not a word about her in the medical institute, if human life is so connected with her?

And then there is the statement of Academician N. Amosov, respected by me: "... Do not rely on medicine. It treats many diseases well, but it cannot make a person healthy ..." After I read from L. Tolstoy: "Taking care of your body has no end and ... people who take care of their bodies with the help of medicine not only forget about the lives of other people, but also about their own "(!!!)
Having no answers to these questions and not seeing an alternative, I postponed these problems "for later." Like Scarlet O "Hara in Gone With the Wind" (I'll think about it tomorrow)
True, she tried to recommend "non-traditional" medicine in some cases, but backed down, making sure that the possibilities were limited there, and clause 10 was no exception. And even charlatans - darkness!

I always wanted understanding in everything, especially in my profession. I do not recognize thoughtless, stupid adherence to "norms". Put everything on the "shelves", and then act. This is for me.
I also always wanted the opportunity to help everyone who asks for help.
Also - mutual understanding and kindness in relationships between people.
And also - support, such that nothing is ever scary.

An amazing thing, I found all this: understanding, support, opportunities, and people who are at the same time. Probably, according to the principle "who wants, he will achieve, who seeks, he will always find."
Now I know how to really help cope with any disease, there are no restrictions on the diagnosis. And for this you do not need to hurt, poison with anesthesia, drugs, deprive the joy of life with the bans of fresh air and sun or strict diets.
True, for the sake of such opportunities, it was worth shaking up your life, finding the strength in yourself for cardinal changes. And leaving work, from a prestigious place is not a sacrifice. And not the betrayal of their patients. Against. Now I have incomparably more opportunities to help.
Yes, for this I had to rearrange from head to feet a lot, which, without hesitation, followed for many years. To do this, I had to honestly look at my whole past life. I had to sort out the priorities. Reform your life position. And try to stand firmly on it.
Of course, they helped me. I am not a loner, I have like-minded friends with me, people who hold the same positions.
And now in my vocabulary there are no words "suddenly", "lucky", "why", "amazing coincidence", "terrible injustice", "why" ... Because everything in our life is natural. And there are no coincidences. Everything has a reason. And you can always find it. Find and eliminate. And cause and effect. And more importantly, a warning.
The understanding of the causes of disease has changed. The possibilities for help have changed.

I realized that medicine is trying to eliminate not the causes, but the consequences of diseases.
When my views on diseases, their causes, on the possibility of help came into conflict with those in medicine, I left it. I do not want to live by double standards and I will not.

Why did I leave materialism

My understanding of the world

Man is a unique creature. Amazingly "thought out" body and incomprehensible Soul. The body is our physical, visible part. Tool for the Soul. It needs to be treated with respect. Rest, food, temperature regime- all according to the known "operating conditions". But our main part, invisible, is the Soul. Everything begins and ends with the Soul.

Life on Earth is a school for the Soul. On Earth, we learn.

We all have a common Parent. The one who created us. Who created the Earth, nature, Space - everything. This is the Creator, Creator, God, Father. The word Father is closest to me.
We are all his Children. (Not slaves. And not workers. But children! For me, the difference is fundamental).
Different in appearance, differing in character, abilities, skin color ... we are basically the same: we have a Soul.
For the upbringing of the Souls of his children, the Father created a school - the School of Life. In order to grow "young" Souls into "adults" in it, to prepare followers of their Deeds. Here children will master the physical world, gain knowledge, experience, and find application of their abilities. Learn to distinguish good from evil. They will learn to keep their peace on their own, to live in harmony with it, in peace and harmony with each other. They will learn to enjoy life and love and cherish everything that the Father gave for this - the earth, nature, plants, animals. And each other.
And all in order to "mature" (take place) by the end of the School to continue life, but at a different level of possibilities, in a different capacity ("go to college").

Learning outcomes will be determined in a "final exam". They will appreciate the knowledge, and the accumulated experience, and the level of maturity (consistency), and realized or unrealized opportunities. A kind of fraction, where in the numerator - what he managed to do in his life, and in the denominator - what he could have done. The exam will decide whether we are ready for future life.

As a tuning fork, as a kind of standard, to help us, the Father put his own particle in the Soul of everyone - the spark of God. We can focus on it in our life. (If I feel that it is "hard on the Soul", then my vibrations did not coincide with the tuning fork. And if "it became easier on the Soul," then everything is correct)
The highest vibrations of GOD, FATHER correspond (are close) on Earth to only one state - Love.
Indeed, this is the strongest human feeling. I'm talking about LOVE. She is like a "driving force". Everything can be done with Love. And nothing is able to resist her. Because there is no other such feeling, but with the opposite sign.
Hatred is weaker than Love.
Relatively recently I realized that every person is endowed with this feeling from the very beginning. Now, if you "get it" from within yourself, or, more precisely, get to the bottom of it through all our "troubles", then everything that "makes up" it will become normal and natural: compassion, and patience, and forgiveness, and understanding, and creation , and help, and kindness ...
To achieve it, FATHER gave us a "hint" - "Live in goodness, treat everything and everyone around you with goodness."
This is the only RULE of successful studies or, in other words, the condition of a normal life.
At the School we will be constantly taught and checked for compliance with the Rule, for compliance with the Standard, forming the circumstances for choosing between good and evil (a kind of tests for consistency).
Everyone has an individual program, and the problems are common - those human qualities that do not fit into the concept of "Good". Those that prevent you from getting to the bottom of your Love.
Pride, envy, anger (anger), laziness, deception, melancholy (despondency), resentment, greed ... - solid negative. Harsh, low vibrations. So you need to manage to get rid of them during your study-life. And this is very difficult. And you need to do this all the time, every day and every minute. As the poet N. Zabolotsky said: "The soul is obliged to work day and night, and day and night ...". Because you may not be in time.
The first time I understood what it means to "fail" when I lost my mother. And I didn’t realize it right away.
And immediately, to the information: "She is leaving," there was only a shock - it cannot be. Already almost on her feet, recovered from a huge "bouquet" of diseases. Remained, as it seemed to us, quite a bit. We will make it in time. Did not make it.
I will definitely tell you about my mom. I should have told you for a long time.

Apparently we are not very diligent students, we do not have time to cope with the program in one life. The Father gives us the opportunity to finish our studies - we come to Earth more than once (esotericists call this reincarnation). At the end of each life - physical death: the body to Mother Earth (analysis into its component parts), and the soul - for an interim exam (as we say, "debriefing"). Everything, everything, down to the smallest thought, we will see to ourselves in our entire past life. And there you will no longer be able to blame your mistakes on someone or "sink into the ground" out of shame for your actions and thoughts. And the accumulated experience will be deposited in a "personal file" for the future.
If there is "good" for the next implementation, its plan is drawn up.
And the conditions of the next arrival on Earth (place of birth, nationality, social environment, parents) now depend on the results of the previous life. How I tried.
We will drag all the unresolved problems in the previous life, all the "tails not surrendered" to the next life (to the next class). And there is already its own program. Plus unworked from past life... It can be very difficult ... For example, an exam that has not been passed on tolerance for another person or his choice may return in a more complex version, when you yourself find yourself "in the shoes" of such a person and feel for yourself what it is like. That is, quite possible variant when an anti-Semite is born into a large and friendly Jewish family. And the "fighter" for the special rights of white-skinned people is in the African tribe.
It’s the same as in the allotted time I didn’t learn how much will be twice or two, but the time has come for the solution three times or three.
But they never give unsolvable problems to anyone (we complicate them ourselves). And there is always a solution. Cover the evil done with good. As my friend Zarema said: "You don't need to fight evil. You need to expand the boundaries of good."
I think that our attitude towards people is one of the main indicators of wealth.

In order not to limit us in our endeavors, opportunities, in creativity, HE gave all of us the FREEDOM OF CHOICE. Each of us has the right to both personal opinion, and your own mistake. And everyone is responsible for it.
Please, live, create, make mistakes, correct, grow, learn ...

For life, or simply put, to act, speak and think, you need energy. And we get it all the time.
We are all in a single energy and information space, in a single energy supply and energy exchange system.
Energy supports everything - the Earth revolves, rivers flow, clouds float, flora grows, blooms, fauna runs, flies and floats, eats and reproduces. Man is born and lives: he speaks, thinks, does. And all this with the help of energy - the Energy of the Creator, Creator, God!
HE provided us with constant sources of his Energy - the Sun, Air, Water, Earth. They are always there, always with us. Everyone somehow feels this energetic support - "the sun, air and water are our best friends." And - children to the river, to the sea, and themselves - lie in the sun and sit in the air. Recover.
The energy that comes to us for life, through our actions, words and thoughts "returns" to the surrounding space, to the "common cauldron". Such a "cycle" of Energy in nature. And each person with his energy affects both himself and the state of the entire system. It can preserve, strengthen. Or maybe vice versa: to bring discord, destroy your own and general energy.

The ability to freely choose between good and evil, to live as you wish, does not mean that our whole life is chaos, anarchy and uncontrolled lawlessness.
The Creator placed his LAW over everything and everyone.
Life in all its manifestations is subject to this Law. He guards our common space. He protects everything that contributes to our existence, everything that is aimed at strengthening and developing the entire civilization and each person. In other words, it protects everything that is good, progressive, positive. And it supports energetically. And vice versa, everything that destructs, "evil" returns back, including the "author". To understand that you cannot "cut the branch on which you are sitting", "spit in the well" without thinking about the consequences of your life. And the earthquake with human sacrifices is also our common negative returned by the Law, in which, quite possibly, there is also my "drop".
The action of the Law can be expressed by the well-known proverb - "you reap what you sow."
The duration of the Law is decided strictly individually, taking into account the capabilities and efforts of each person, taking into account the plan of his life.

Hence, it turns out that the problems that arise in our life (fire, illness, traffic accident, a brick on the head, sudden industrial complications ...) are our own negative, which the Law returned to us in one form or another. That is, on a physical, understandable level, we are given to understand that a RULE has been violated - a condition for a normal life - in order to live, you need to live in goodness.

So it turns out that the question: "Who is to blame?" in all cases, you can answer with one simple action - go to the nearest mirror. There will be the culprit of all my problems.

Now "What to do?", When the normal course of life has been disrupted.
Stop, look back. To "rewind" the time and find where, when, how I introduced evil-negative into the world: offended, envied, condemned, offended, deceived, prided, angry. Where I fell under the Law. (Or where, when and how I "substituted another person under the Law." That is, to give out negative "into the common pot" and violate the Rule of human community. And the fact that he himself does not remember about the Law does not change anything for me.)
Finding the cause is the first step in eliminating the consequences.
But to realize and accept it as your mistake! Now this is a spiritual work. To understand and accept that what has been done (said, thought) is bad, this cannot be done in any way and never again, because I, people, the world will suffer from this. Realize this and apologize to the one whom you offended. And before the Father. Apologize sincerely, from the heart. The Father always sees the degree of our sincerity.
One of many, an example from life. In search of the cause of the serious problems that have arisen, I found the moment of violation, where I broke the Law. She got down on her knees, addressing the Father with an apology-repentance: "Forgive me for making me upset again ..." After the third attempt, I decided not to repeat it again. But I didn’t understand anything. Why? After all, I found the reason correctly. Later, information came: I found the reason - "I figured it out with my brains", but internally, with my soul, I did not accept it. The main thing, for the sake of which this entire "school" system was created, did not happen. There was no change in my soul (I didn't learn my lesson, I answered using a cheat sheet). And the Law was put in place to help you learn to become a Human.
Therefore, it is possible to stop the operation of the Law only by one's understanding and sincere repentance.
And it is extremely important, having realized your mistake, to learn this lesson for the rest of your life. And try not to repeat it. And take the knowledge gained to help you for the future. This is the meaning of study - our experience and internal changes - spiritual growth. Because otherwise it will not be a school, but Kindergarten: "Dad, I won't be like this anymore." And a minute later I completely forgot about my "Skoda" and I live on, as if nothing had happened: I’ll be forgiven again the next time.
You can, of course, live without knowing any such law, in constant bewilderment and chagrin - why? why did this happen to me? where does this injustice come from? what an absurd accident, etc. But ignorance of the Law, as you know, does not exempt from responsibility. The option of a blind kitten that pokes, bruises itself, in the corners - not my option. For me, it is better to live consciously, in understanding where my troubles come from. And how to fix them. Better yet, avoid.

I know that there is no novelty in my worldview. These concepts were given to people from the very beginning. This is as a guide for those who went for a walk in the forest, for firewood or for another purpose, and then do not want to stupidly wander, in search of a way to home, but uses the known knowledge as a compass, that, for example, moss grows on trees on the north side, and starlings begin to sing at 4 am, etc. And the only question is how much a person wants about them, about landmarks, to remember and be guided by them in life.